Financial Planning

Understanding the Financial Aspects of Divorce

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When we enter into a marriage, we assume it’s for life. The reality, however, is that a great many marriages ultimately end in divorce. Sometimes the dissolution occurs over a long period of time where both partners can see the writing on the wall and begin to prepare themselves both emotionally and financially. Other times, however, the separation can come as a complete shock to one spouse.

Even marriages that have endured for a couple of decades are no longer immune, as witnessed by the significant rise in what is being labeled “gray divorce.” Additionally, in 1990, only about one in ten people getting divorced were over age 50. Today, that percentage has climbed to one in four.1

Certainly nobody wants to plan to fail, but the fact remains that failing to plan will likely have far worse ramifications. Don’t wait until some unexpected event forces you into scrambling to put your financial house in order, do it now—while you have the luxury of time and minimal pressure.

Preparation and awareness

Regardless of whether or not you ever have to deal with a divorce, you owe it to yourself to commit to becoming acquainted with both sides of your family’s balance sheet. Make sure you have a clear understanding of all your assets and liabilities. Assemble and review all your important documents such as wills, trusts and insurance policies. Keep them in a safe place along with any account numbers, user IDs and passwords and the name and phone number of contacts at the various financial institutions your family works with.

Establish at least one credit card account that’s solely in your name. Far too many newly divorced women face a tremendous uphill battle to simply establish personal credit because all of their accounts were held jointly. In addition, don’t merely assume that you are the named beneficiary for your spouse’s accounts and insurance policies—especially if this is a second marriage for your spouse.

You’ll also want to take time to learn about the tax implications of various assets. This is an area where less financially savvy spouses often find themselves taken advantage of. Suppose you own a $500,000 traditional IRA, a $250,000 brokerage account and a $250,000 Roth IRA. Would you willingly take the $500,000 IRA in a settlement and let your spouse keep the brokerage account and the Roth? Both parties end up with $500,000, don’t they?

In fact, since the traditional IRA is funded with before-tax dollars, taxes will need to be paid on those assets when you begin to take distributions, so it’s actually worth considerably less than the combined brokerage account (which is comprised of after-tax dollars) and the Roth IRA (which is tax-free*). This is why tax implications are so critical.

Lastly, keep in mind that in any marriage that has lasted at least 10 years before divorce occurs, you may be entitled to additional benefits. Courts in some states retain the right to order that alimony be paid to the lesser-earning spouse for as long as needed if the higher-earning spouse has the ability to pay. As long as you remain unmarried, you’re eligible to collect derivative Social Security benefits based on your ex-spouse's earnings once you reach retirement age. And if you were married for at least 10 years while your spouse was on active military duty, you can receive a percentage of his or her retirement benefits paid directly to you by the military finance office.

It takes a village

Hopefully, you never have to deal with the upheaval of divorce. But if you do, remember to think team—not just attorney. People tend to rely exclusively on their attorney to handle all aspects of their divorce. It’s critical, however, to bring as much insight and expertise to the situation as possible. By creating a team including your attorney, your accountant and your financial advisor, you’ll be far better able to assess the impact of various decisions on all aspects of your personal and financial situation.

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1 Pew Research Center, Analysis of the 2015 American Community Survey (IPUMS)

*Qualified distributions are federal income tax free. A qualified withdrawal requires that the withdrawal be taken at least 5 tax years after your contributions to a Roth and after reaching age 59 ½, becoming disabled or death.

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